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giovedì 26 febbraio 2015

Gli incontri sono già combinati dalle anime

Prim'ancora che i corpi si vedano ...... essi
avvengono quando arriviamo...a..un limite,
quando abbiamo bisogno di ........ morire e
rinascere emotivamente.
[ Paulo Coelho
]

Facile dire sono la Tua schiava

Sono colei che sono, imperfetta ma unica.
Sono colei che fa dei Tuoi desideri mio Signore i miei doveri.
Facile dire sono la Tua schiava mio Signore.
Il difficile è sapere tenere la testa bassa 
e lasciarmi usare da Te mio Padrone assoluto.

byStella 26.02.2015












UNA STELLA

Lei è solo sé
e brilla di sua luce,
io me soltanto
e rifletto la sua luce.
Finché arde il suo consenso
e la mia parola
il fuoco non brucia,
s’illumina il cammino
e i miei desideri il fato non opprime.

di harrison

mercoledì 25 febbraio 2015

Essere nel pensiero di qualcuno è un dono.

Essere nel pensiero di qualcuno è un dono.
Un seme delicato che germoglia nel terreno di una mente.
Un privilegio meraviglioso.
Paola Felice

Vacanze Romane

Noi conoscevamo il segreto. 
Esserci. Appartenersi dentro.

Che non è possedersi. È di più.”
A. DePascalis


 SIAMO due menti che si nutrono l'un l'altra incessantemente....NOI











mercoledì 11 febbraio 2015

Test results

== Results from http://bdsmtest.org/ == 
100% Degradation Receiver 
100% Masochist 
100% Slave 
93% Primal (Prey) 
91% Submissive 
76% Primal (Predator) 
75% Exhibitionist 
75% Experimentalist 
72% Brat 
71% Girl/Boy 
68% Bondage Receiver 
61% Pervert 
51% Switch 
45% Voyeur 
41% Bondage Giver 
34% Brat Tamer 
29% Dominant 
29% Non-monogamist 
16% Daddy/Mommy 
16% Vanilla 
13% Degradation Giver 
13% Master/Mistress 
8% All-Rounder 
8% Sadist 
See my results online at http://bdsmtest.org/result.php?id=112007

Archetype details
Degradation Receiver (100%)
Degradation receiver like to be degraded and humiliated by their play partner(s), either by being acted upon in a degrading way, or by being forced do things they consider degrading.
Degradation receivers typically pair up withdegradation givers.

Masochist (100%)
Masochists enjoy receiving (certain types of) pain from their partner(s), usually in a sexual context. Masochism is independent of pain tolerance: it is purely about the ability to enjoy certain levels of pain.
Masochists typically pair up with sadists.

Slave (100%)
Slaves completely hand over the control and responsibilities over their life to their master/mistress. They go a step further than submissives in the sense that their power exchange is present 24/7 and in all aspects of their life (except for negotiated exceptions such as during their office jobs). Serving their master/mistress is their primary focus in life and they rarely have limits for them.
Slaves typically pair up with masters/mistresses.

Primal (Prey) (93%)
Primals are mainly focused on their natural instincts and they enjoy letting their inner animal out during sex. The key part for primals play is that the participants show their raw, emotional sexual feelings during play. All of the labels, roles, and protocols go out the window, and the prey (you) can become a snarling, growing, clawing animal hell-bent on getting away from its predator.
Preys typically pair up with predators.

Submissive (91%)
Submissives like to follow. Some like to give the control away to their partner(s), some like to have it forcibly taken from them. Some are submissive only in the bedroom, others are submissive throughout their daily life as well (usually with limitations). Unlike the bottom roles (receiving pain/bondage/degradation), being submissive is more about who decides what happens (and takes the responsibility that comes with it) than about the contents of what happens.
Submissives typically pair up with dominants.

Primal (Predator) (76%)
Primals are mainly focused on their natural instincts and they enjoy letting their inner animal out during sex. The key part for primals play is that the participants show their raw, emotional sexual feelings during play. All of the labels, roles, and protocols go out the window, and the prey can become a snarling, growing, clawing animal hell-bent on getting away from its predator (you).
Predators typically pair up with preys.

Exhibitionist (75%)
Exhibitionists enjoy showing their naked body or a sexual activity to other people. Definitions vary with respect to whether those being shown this, should be looking for such encounter or not.
Exhibitionists typically pair up with voyeurs.

Experimentalist (75%)
Experimentalists want to have tried it all. An open mind and an insatiable curiosity are their key features, and they will rarely form an opinion before they have gathered first hand experience. They often have plenty of fantasies and will actively pursue to try them out.
Experimentalists typically pair up with other experimentalists.

Brat (72%)
Brats are, in essence, naughty submissives. They find disobedience a form of playfulness rather than a form of rudeness, and require a compatible dominant who will not only teach them a lesson, but also accept that any number of lessons might still not necessarily change this behavior.
Brats typically pair up with brat tamers.

Girl/Boy (71%)
Littles (girls/boys) are submissive spirits that mix childlike innocence with naughty sexual curiosity. They long for a nurturing loving dominant who plays a guiding, almost parental role in their lives. While they require a softer approach to be dominated than most other submissives, their submission can go a lot deeper and sometimes rival those of slaves.
Girls/boys typically pair up withdaddies/mommies.

Bondage Receiver (68%)
Bondage receivers likes to be tied up and restrained, using rope and/or other attributes (chains, cuffs, speaders...). Whether for sexual enhancement, for art or just for fun, they enjoy being totally at the mercy of their partner(s).
Bondage receivers typically pair up with bondage givers.

Pervert (61%)
Perverts are sexual freethinkers, not afraid to set traditional views and ethics aside to do what their own value system tells them is best. With their 'anything goes' mentality they will not let societal rules or expectations get in the way of their heart (or, for that matter, their genitals).
Perverts typically pair up with other perverts.

Switch (51%)
Switches like to... well, switch. Always taking a dominant or top position is not for them, neither is always taking a submissive or bottom position. Some prefer to switch with the same partner or partners, others have a dominant play partner and a submissive play partner, but in either case they don't fit on one end point of the spectrum.
Switches typically pair up with other switches.

Voyeur (45%)
Voyeurs enjoy watching the nakedness or sexual activity of other people. Definitions vary with respect to whether those being watched should be aware of this, or not.
Voyeurs typically pair up with exhibitionists.

Bondage Giver (41%)
Bondage givers like to tie up and restrain their partner(s), using rope and/or other attributes (chains, cuffs, speaders...). Whether for sexual enhancement, for art or just for fun, they enjoy having their partners completely at their mercy.
Bondage givers typically pair up with bondage receivers.

Brat Tamer (34%)
Brat tamers are, in essence, dominants who can handle naughty submissives. They find disobedience a form of playfulness from the submissive's side, rather than a form of rudeness, and will take no offence to it, but will still teach the sub a lesson (because, of course, that's why the bratty sub shows such behavior).
Brat Tamers typically pair up with brats.

Dominant (29%)
Dominants like to be in charge. Some like to have their partner obey them without questioning, others like some resistance while taking it their way. Some are dominant only in the bedroom, others are dominant throughout their daily life as well (usually with limitations). Unlike the top roles (giving paina/bondage/degradation), being dominant is more about who decides what happens (and takes the responsibility that comes with it) than about the contents of what happens.
Dominants typically pair up with submissives.

Non-monogamist (29%)
Non-monogamists don't see sexuality as necessarily a 1 on 1 thing. Whether this means they will have several relationships or just see other people outside their relationship (or have even more exquisite constructions) depends entirely on the person and the situation, but they all have one thing in common: their sexuality is more than just between them and one fixed partner.
Non-monogamists typically pair up with (several) other non-monogamists.

Daddy/Mommy (16%)
Daddies/Mommies take on a caretaker role in the relationship, being a guide as much a dominant. Daddies/Mommies dominate their little treasure submissives with an iron fist in a velvet glove: much cuddly and affectionate on the outside, while being as sturdy and hard on the inside as other dominants. Using subtle psychological mechanisms rather than brute power, they nurture their littles into obedience.
Daddies/Mommies typically pair up withgirls/boys.

Vanilla (16%)
Vanilla people have a more traditional view on relationships and sexuality. They're not in need of kink at all, instead they settle for the standard sexuality and relationship model that our society presents them.
Vanillas typically pair up with other vanillas.

Degradation Giver (13%)
Degradation givers like to degrade and humiliate their play partner(s), either by acting upon them in a degrading way, or by or by forcing them to do things they consider degrading. Consent hereby is always assumed.
Degradation givers typically pair up withdegradation receivers.

Master/Mistress (13%)
Masters/Mistresses receive complete control over the life of their slave(s), and all responsibilities that come with it. They go a step further than dominants in the sense that their power exchange is present 24/7 and in all aspects of their life (except for negotiated exceptions such as during their office jobs). Their primary focus is to create a stable and safe environment for their slave(s), to allow optimal servitude.
Masters/Mistresses typically pair up with slaves.

All-Rounder (8%)
All-rounders have no specific preferences to either category. It doesn't matter who's in charge and who inflicts what on who, they all like (or dislike) it equally much. They have no other suitable category here.
All-rounders typically pair up with other all-rounders.

Sadist (8%)
Sadists enjoy inflicting (certain types of) pain on their partner(s), usually in a sexual context. Consent hereby is always assumed.
Sadists typically pair up with masochists.
Ricevitore degradazione ( 100 % )
Ricevitore Degrado piace essere degradato e umiliato da loro partner di gioco ( s ) , sia per essere messo in atto nel modo degradanti , o essere costretti fare le cose che ritengono degradante.



venerdì 6 febbraio 2015

Onore a mio SIGNORE

Una dimostrazione di fedeltà e obbedienza è la più alta forma di rispetto con cui una schiava può onorare il suo Maestro.
Ma questo non può essere richiesto né costretto perché poi diventa qualcosa di diverso.
Quando richiesto, o costretto, l'esposizione pubblica diventa performance come un compito.
Diventa gioco. 

Se una persona esegue un'esposizione pubblica non per appartenenza  e  fedeltà,
ma lo fa da sé, diventa esibizionismo.

Se una slave lo fa per obbedienza e costrizione,
diventa umiliazione o degradazione.
Quando l'esposizione al pubblico è obbligatoria, è un esercizio di potere, di controllo e/o di vanità. 
Ognuno di questi scenari descritti ha il proprio merito, valore e significato. 

Ma quando l'esposizione pubblica diventa un atto di altruismo,
quando è derivato da un luogo di puro intento,
quando è qualcosa che viene dal cuore di una schiava sottomessa,
non c'è nessun onore maggiore che una schiava puo conferire a suo Padrone.

Black Orpheus